Sunday, March 31, 2013

上海黑幫大哥杜月笙看穿一個人




上海黑幫大哥杜月笙教你看穿一個人~

1.不吸煙不飲酒的人,都很自私;一般不可托終生。

2.對你吹拍人,最可能背叛你。
  傷你最深的人,一定是你最愛的人。
  百分之七十的兇殺案發生于熟人之間。
  生虎猶可近,熟人不可親。

3.膽小的男孩一般能成大事。
  打仗前思後想的,才是帥才。
  流淚的男人一定有愛心。
  舉棋不定是一種美德。

4.愛罵人的人,內心都很恐懼。
  長角的動物都不是食肉動物。
  一群人中最安靜的人往往最有實力。
  動如火掠,不動如山。

5.背叛你的女孩,再侮辱你,一生命薄;惡有惡報。
  早年的“班花、校花”,有幾個會有晚年的幸福?
  猛虎別在當道臥,困龍也有上天時。

6.重情之人,難有愛情之幸福。
  當你說岀愛字,你就處於被動。
  愛情的真諦是“欲擒故縱”,鮮花大都插在牛糞上。
  駿馬常馱癡漢走,巧女常伴愚夫眠。

7.不要怕被別人利用,人家利用你說明你還有用。

8.做人有三碗面最難吃:人面、場面、情面。

9.頭等人,有本事,沒脾氣;
  二等人,有本事,有脾氣;
  末等人,沒本事,大脾氣。

10.杜月笙有句掛在嘴上的話:小心得天下,大意失荊州。

11.人活在世上要靠兩樣東西:膽識&智慧。

12.事不要做絕,要留有餘地。


Thursday, March 28, 2013

拿掉你的专业,你剩什么?




“拿掉你的专业,你剩什么?”

一个竹科高阶主管,年薪200万的大哥分享。当我的女朋友告诉我,要走出来学习成长、找备胎时,我心想:我的工作这麽好了,还要出来学什麽,找什麽备胎。

我的老师,看到了我看不到的危机,便告诉我『你的工作非常的好,但是拿掉你的专业,你剩什麽?』


他讲了一个故事:
“有一隻海螺,常看到渔夫拿着长长的钓竿要钓他,每当他看到这危机时,他的头就缩进去他认为十分安全的壳内,躲避一切。隔了几天,他想伸出头来看看风景,呼吸一下空气。他突然发现…周遭环境变的都不太一样了,他身处在一家海产店,外面标价:50元。”

我就像这个海螺,遇到困难,都躲起来。我们在老闆眼中,也只是一个价钱。我的老师又说:在顺境时找出路比在逆境时找退路还来的简单。

在我上班的公司,若有一个人要升迁,要三位主管联合视讯开会,其中一位主管得报告为何要让他升迁,有2/3 的人通过,那个被提名的人才可以升迁。上个月,我有位部属因为工作表现不佳,副总一句话,他就走路。

升迁要很多人同意,可是离职却只是一个人讲,就得走。我们的未来就掌握在一个人的二片薄薄的嘴唇上。但是透过不断的学习,我让我的未来掌握在自已手中。

他说:如果你认为你是个人才,那你要放在对的舞台,不然老闆会把你当木材烧。


如果一年以后,你被迫马上离开这裡,你有多少优势能让你快速转换理想跑道?如果十年以后,你被迫中年失业,你那时剩多少优势能与新世代竞争?

英特尔裁员五千人,让我不禁又吓出一堆冷汗,这些人,领着高薪,拥有着人人称羡的头衔上班时,可曾想到会有这一天。到底是为什麽?难道他们的专业有问题吗?能在这些知名企业上班的起码都有两把刷子

曾经有个台湾记者访问『穷爸爸与富爸爸』的作者:「我想要在我的工作上更进一层楼,我应该去精进我的英文吗?」,这位作者回答他:「难道纽约街头的乞丐,英文能力比你差吗?」。很显然,不是专业上的问题,这也是多数人始料未及的,总以为只要不断的精进专业知识,就可立于不败之地。可惜趋势不断地在改变。

MOTOROLA 总代理商的杨贯一,他举了一个例子:
『一家生产笔记型的电脑公司,因获利短少,转而生产手机』。

短短一句话,对公司来说,只是关掉一个获利少的生产线,而增加一个获利高的生产线而已。对当初帮老闆赚进大把银子的工程师,却要面临被裁撤的命运。

『在20年前,你所拥有的优势,可以用5年』;

『在10年前,你所拥有的优势,可以用2年』;

『而现在,你所拥有的优势,只能维持半年』!

朋友,用你现在所拥有的能力还能用多久?

有句话说的好:『人要活到老,学到老,而不要活到老,做到老』

很多人说学习啊,没时间啦!千万不要等到你有时间,却来不及的时候就太晚了!


Wednesday, March 6, 2013

Who hijacked Malaysia's RM207 Billion??!


Is Dr Mahathir Mohamad  going to take the same “silence is golden” stand as Najib Tun Razak and his infamous diamond-loving wife Rosmah Mansor when cornered by an issue?
The revelation by the Japanese Embassy that it had paid compensation to the Malaysian government for families of victims of the so called “Death Railway” project in the 1940s is shocking.
The sum of RM207 billion or whatever the amount must be revealed by Mahathir. He was close to the Japanese government and corporate sector when he promoted his Look East Policy aimed at enhancing trade with Japan.


The money, believed to be amounting to RM207 billion, was meant to be distributed to some 30,000 Malaysians who had been recruited as forced labourers by the Japanese to build the Thai-Burma rail link.
This means each affected family is entitled to receive between RM2.8 million and RM3 million as compensation.
The stinking part of the Umno-led Barisan Nasional federal government is that the public is today unaware of the compensation payment by the Japanese.
We would have thought Mahathir would have brought the money back from Japan in triumph, like a victorious Roman general.
Umno would have organised a huge gathering of the victims or their families and distributed the money. No, it was all covered in secrecy.
National probe needed

The money rightfully belongs to the victims of the “Death Railway” project and their families and to rob them is despicable.
The money is believed to have been transferred by the Japanese government to Malaysia in the 1990s. This means it happened during Mahathir’s 22-year reign.
Who then has hijacked or stolen the money?
It is no small sum and surely Mahathir cannot expect us to accept his infamous “I cannot remember” or “I am unaware of such compensation money from Japan”?
This time, Malaysians cannot accept his “selective loss of memory” or “selective amnesia”.
Whoever stole the money from the 30,000 dead Malaysians is/are worse than animals, hitting the depths of greed.
The government must immediately set up a national probe team to track down the thief/thieves to recover the money and for prosecution.
Surely there are paper trails, beginning with the transfer/s from the Japanese to the Malaysian government.
Meanwhile, Japan can do further justice to the 30,000 Malaysian forced labourers who died in the “Death Railway” project by revealing their identities so that their families are traced.
Ultimate danger


And, as for Mahathir who said five years of Pakatan Rakyat-rule is dangerous because BN will have no chance to return to power, I say, “Good riddance”. After 55 years of misrule, it is time to retire Umno permanently.
With mounting and rising federal debts at RM620 billion or 74% of the Gross Domestic Product (GDP), meaning the BN is operating way above the 55% federal debt ceiling, that is more dangerous to Malaysians and the country.
If, for some reason, our oil wells suddenly run dry, we will immediately be deemed a bankrupt nation and untold misery would befall all Malaysians.
Also, a point to show why Pakatan is more dependable is that the financial management of the Pakatan states, debuting in 2008, has been acknowledged by the Auditor-General as more superior than the states governed by the BN.
And Mahathir’s silence over reports of his allegedly US$44 billion (more than RM132 billion) in accumulated wealth is even more dangerous.
And with him now seemingly trying to engineer his son, Mukhriz, to rise as prime minister by or before the 14th general election, it is the ultimate danger for Malaysians and Malaysia.

By Chua Jui Meng